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Cecil Borel
11-12-2005, 01:29 PM
I met Mike Pilato though our informal "triangle wooden boat builders" group several years ago. Through postings and pictures of his grey seal project, I discovered he was an excellant boat builder. He also helped me turn over "Janetess" in Oct '04 (he is wearing the pink shirt at the far right in the group picture, below). I was very surprised and saddened to learn of his death from cancer at the end of August. I found out about his death from his partner Janet Dykes, who has written the following:

It is with a heavy heart that I post this message to the Wooden Boat Forum
and in particular to those of you who followed Mike Pilato's progress
building the Grey Seal. Mike, or "MikeP" as those of you in the Forum knew
him, passed away on August 24, 2005 after a six-year battle with cancer.

Mike began building the Grey Seal in early 2000 a few months after he was
diagnosed with sinus cancer. He suffered several setbacks and debilitating
treatments but building the boat carried him through the good and the bad.
He never waivered in his determination to beat his disease and to finish the
boat. Unfortunately, neither was meant to be.

The last year and a half of his life he was only able to do minimal work on
the boat because of health, personal issues and the fact that the boat was
ten miles away at his former home. To give him a boost, on July 13, 2005,
several of his friends got together and engineered the move of the Grey
Seal, which he hoped to name "Trinity", to his new home. He was a happy man
that day. He was too sick to work on it after July 13, but took comfort in
being able to look out the window and see the fruits of his labor.

I am the executrix of his will and have been charged with the task of
fulfilling his wishes as regards to the boat. He named an organization
where he wanted to donate the boat with the hope it be finished in a
learning environment and one which would uphold a high standard of quality.
That organization turned it down.

Not to be thwarted, since Mike directed that his tools be donated to the
North Carolina Maritime Museum Boat Shop, I then offered the museum not only
the tools, but the boat as well. I was told that "sometimes" they accept
boats. One week later they informed me that yes indeed, they would accept
the donation of Mike's boat along with the tools. Right now we are working
out the logistics of getting the boat and tools to Beaufort, NC (three hours
away) and I hope to have the details worked out within the week.

To all of you who wish to hear of the progress of the boat, I will be happy
to keep you informed. My e-mail address is: jdykes@verizon.net

The link to his obituary is as follows:
http://obit.hallwynne.com/obit_display.cgi?id=248388&listing=Current

Check out a memorable MikeP message thread:
http://www.woodenboat-ubb.com/cgi-bin/UBB/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=1&t
=008430&p=

Sincerely,
Janet Dykes http://www.imagestation.com/picture/sraid141/p611f4c1927a677505edc9cc4485a5c2b/f6c50e19.jpg

StevenBauer
11-12-2005, 01:49 PM
Sad news indeed. I met Mike briefly at the WoodenBoat Show in Newport in '04. I was sitting with Norm Messinger and Mike came over to show us some pictures of his Grey Seal and to thank Norm for all his help. Now they are both gone. :(
I hope the Museum makes good use of his tools and his boat. Is this the same Museum that Oyster Mike helps out at?

Fair winds MikeP...

Steven

[ 11-12-2005, 01:49 PM: Message edited by: StevenBauer ]

capt jake
11-12-2005, 02:05 PM
Sad news indeed. :( I remember following the boat move as shown in the picture. It did seem like a joyous time.

Another fine person who will certainly be missed by all. :(

StevenBauer
11-12-2005, 04:57 PM
That forum link wouldn't work for me. Try this one (http://tinyurl.com/7bulk) .

Steven

Meerkat
11-12-2005, 06:43 PM
:(

htom
11-12-2005, 11:26 PM
:( Thanks for telling us, Janet and Cecil. Sad news, but Mike's dream ship may sail yet.

Wild Dingo
11-13-2005, 10:27 AM
Damn that sailin club up there is fillin up too bloody fast! I wasnt even aware he was crook :(

Look after his dream Oyster Mike and everyone involved to the fellas at the museum make it sail the way he wished he could have treasure the work hes done and the way hes done it

To his wife and family and the mates he has... our love and thoughts from downunder to you all may you gain some peace from his gift and the joys you all shared while you shared his time on earth with him

Sailin on heavens waves his dream complete in that sainted place quietly he sails away

Rest in peace MikeP :(

JimD
11-13-2005, 10:00 PM
Fair winds, Mike. :(

igatenby
11-13-2005, 10:40 PM
:(

Joe ( Cold Spring on Hudson )
11-14-2005, 12:40 AM
Fair Winds. :(

Concordia..41
11-14-2005, 01:22 AM
Fair winds.... :(

Paul Girouard
11-14-2005, 01:33 AM
Fair winds , following seas.

John B
11-14-2005, 01:37 AM
Yes, from me too. I've been thinking about this all day now, very sorry to hear it. I wish that link to the old thread would work.... could that be resurrected somehow, do you think?

ah. Thanks Art.
http://www.woodenboat-ubb.com/ubb/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=008430

[ 11-14-2005, 01:49 AM: Message edited by: John B ]

Alan D. Hyde
11-14-2005, 11:42 AM
Michael Thomas Pilato
Departed on Aug. 24, 2005 and resided in Durham, NC.

Visitation: Sunday Aug. 28, 2005
Funeral Mass: Monday Aug. 29, 2005

Michael Thomas Pilato, 47, died Wednesday in Hospice Meadowlands after a six year battle with cancer. Michael was born June 2, 1958 to Louis and Elaine Pilato and was raised in Bound Brook, NJ. He graduated from Immaculata High School in Somerville, NJ and was a graduate of Cook College, Rutgers Univ. Michael received a master’s degree in botany from NC State Univ. A resident of the Triangle area since 1980, he was a highly respected research biologist, and was most recently a product safety manager with Bayer CropScience in Research Triangle Park. While employed with Rhone-Poulenc (predecessor of Bayer CropScience), Michael received the following prestigious awards: 1995 - Orchidee de Argent; 1997 - Prix de Recherche and Orchidee de Bronze; and in 2005, the Bayer CropScience Laureate Award.

A talented craftsman, Michael was gifted in virtually anything with his hands, especially woodwork. He was also an avid sailor and builder of wooden boats.

He was a parishioner of Immaculate Conception Catholic Church.

Michael Pilato will be remembered for his caring and compassionate nature, high level of skill and keen mind. Though competitive and at times stubborn, Michael was humble yet confident. “High impact but low profile,” according to his family.

Surviving are his children, Christine, Jenna and Teresa Pilato of Cary; his parents, Dr. Louis and Elaine Pilato of Bound Brook, NJ; his brothers, Marc Pilato, M.D. of Greenville, NC, Louis Pilato, II of Flemington, NJ, Gregory Pilato of New London, CT and Carey Pilato of Bound Brook, NJ; his sisters, Denise Nelson of New Hope, PA, Jeannine Nanavati of Montclair, NJ and Renee Medieros of Clifton Twp. NJ.

A Mass of Christian burial will be offered 10:00 AM Monday from Immaculate Conception Catholic Church, with Fr. Steven Patti presiding. Friends may visit 3-6 PM Sunday at Hall-Wynne Funeral Service. Donations may be made to Duke Community Hospice, 4321 Medical Park Dr. Durham, NC 27704 or to Immaculate Conception Church, 716-A Burch Ave. Durham, 27701. E-mail condolences to: info@hallwynne.com

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Fair winds, as you embark on the endless sunlit seas...

Alan

Marcio Moreira
11-16-2005, 05:33 AM
:(
farewell

Cecil Borel
11-27-2005, 08:34 PM
I am posting an update of Mike Pilato's legacy donation to the NC maritime museum in Beaufort, NC. This is an account by one of our forum members who has taken an active role in helping Mike's legacy reach fruition.
"We moved the boat and tools today. What a very sad time as we left the house
for Janet. The museum has plans to finish the boat now in Beaufort. I was
very glad to be a part of another labor of love of boats. He has done a very
fine job up to know, leaving no stone unturned with containers of parts of
the highest quality. I was amazed to find some of the custom fabricated
pintels someone has made for him, and some mighty fine bronze portlights,
just to name a few. The NC maritime museum has accepted and will indeed do the work
this year, from what they have told me." http://www.imagestation.com/picture/sraid195/pc9e2b7495c5a2c6647d0ae342b232199/f149e688.jpg

Alan D. Hyde
11-28-2005, 10:55 AM
Thanks, Cecil.

That's good to know.

Alan

Paul
11-29-2005, 08:05 PM
Thank you Cecil for posting. I met Mike several years ago when we started a boat builders get together here in Raleigh, NC. Cecil had us over to his place to share our interest in wooden boats. A friend and I visited Mike's home and he gave us a tour of his boat. When I was diagnosed with renal cell, it was Mike who came to the hospital to give me encouragement and books on boatbuilding. I repaid the hospital visit to Mike when he was undergoing treatment. I am saddened with his passing. I am glad to hear his beloved boat will be finished.

Alan D. Hyde
11-30-2005, 09:21 AM
Paul, how are things with your boat?

http://www.havenbuilders.com/sailboat1a.JPG

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Alan

Paul
12-30-2005, 09:19 PM
Alan, thanks for asking. I sailed GINA*B for four seasons before deciding to sell her to a nice gentleman in Virginia.
I am in the process of building another Haven 12.5. This one will be strip planked and cold molded.
Hope all is well with you.

Alan D. Hyde
12-31-2005, 06:39 PM
It is, thanks, Paul.

Best wishes to you & yours for a happy, healthy & prosperous new year.

Alan

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